If you want something, tell me, what is stopping you from obtaining it. Insecurities? Past failures? Fear? We all have them, these lurking excuses that we tell ourselves make us unworthy of what we truly want. But starting today, right now, at this very moment you read these words, forget those excuses. You deserve all the happiness in the world so do not doubt your abilities. Success in school or work is compatible with a wonderful love life. Whatever it is that you want- that guy, that social life, that dream job or college, is in your control. Of course there are always other factors involved such as chance, luck, or sheer incompatibility. But do not forget the percent that you can change. For instance, if you want this guy to like you, you cannot just sit in the background hoping he'll notice you. Instead, woman up and strike up a conversation. If you want that good test grade, study, study, and study again. If you want to be more successful, work for it and in time, you will reek the benefits.
Stop letting your regrets define you. There is so much to life that we cannot experience if we hold on to the past, or worse- impossible wishes. We can control our happiness through our mindset and actions. Never forget that.
"To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all". Oliver Wilde
Do you live or exist? It's your choice.